Is there anyway i can get the sims 3 cursors to use in windows? i've tried looking in the gamedata folders but cant find 'em :\

Have you tried moving you arrows left and right? That worked for me! :-)

In most games, cursors (more appropriately "pointers") are not standard Windows pointers, but rather integrated within the graphic engine of the game. Therefore, it will not be possible to directly extract them from the game.

However, there is a way. In the game, move the pointer over a part of the screen where there is only a flat color which will be easy to cut off later and take a screenshot. Now use a pointer/icon editor (there are some which are free, and there are some which you can try for some time, and since you are not going to need more than a few hours to have your job done the trial period should be long enough for you).

Of course, if things go well, make sure to share with others